SR.

1) I can tell you from personal experience that pot will stunt your libido. I am being presumptious here but biggun has a point (if you are smoking pot).

2) Try another brand of condoms. I went through a number before I discovered that the extra thins with lube are the best. A lot of times, I'll lead in with a dildo and that will make her pussy so hot that the sheer heat and wetness of her pussy will go right through condom as if I wasn't wearing one. What normally takes me 20 minutes will happen in 3.

Another option is to get fixed. I decided to take the leap and get a vasectomy in January so I'll be GUARANTEED to be a safe lay! LOL!!!!

rabbit