Often time someone who has such an imflamatory attitude tends to bring out the worst in all of us, at least that's how it can be with me.

Mark, your attitude (as has been demonstrated so far) towards women sucks and when you mature some I think/hope you will see that it's not everyone's responsibility to sort you out. Until you learn to respect women, I would suggest you leave the less experienced women alone. Chances are they are going to do just as you have described and put up "blocks", refuse you and avoid you. They can feel the disrespect but don't know what to do about it so they run or hide. The women who have responded to you here also feel the disrespect but they are mature enough to know that they do not have to tolerate it and can just speak up and tell you why. As long as you continue to make the choices you have then you are going to continue to see similar results.

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Not sure where you stand on this, Mark.
I agree your first post wasn't very good, but I got the lagist of it.

My wife and I have been together for 16 years and we were each other's first. Her and I played around a month before our first time, but it was always up to her. She too had sexual hang ups because she felt sex was a bad thing and only for procreation. I would only go as far as she let me. Yes, it was frustration, but I cared for her and was willing to wait as long as she wanted. That would be my advise...talk to her about sex and what might be reservations. My wife wanted to know that I would be there after we went all the way (Still loving each other after 16 years), wanted to know that she wasn't going to get pregnant (I had to use two condoms or there wasn't anyway we would), wanted to know it wouldn't hurt (I popped her cherry with my thumb a week earlier accidently, but when we did, it didn't hurt at all.), wanted to know that I would be gentle. Reassure her, be patient, and understand that she may say yes multiple times, but after getting into it, she may get nervous and decide not to, so you need to be willing to take some cold showers and not get upset with her if she does. A woman is stimulated mentally so you need to start there first and not in her pants.

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