I swore I wasn't going to post to this thread again but here goes....

Your young lady is Asian.
Being so she has probably been brought up in a completely different culture and has a mindset that you cannot fathom. You need to become educated about her.
Maybe you should investigate through reading what has brought her to the belief system she has had ingrained in her.Once you understand the cultural difference more, maybe then she can slowly learn yours.

That's it! I am out of here!