Not for the first time I have been told by a female Pixie friend that some guys who have seen her pics in Pixies have IM'ed her and have made her uncomfortable with crude and suggestive messages. Ones that she has not sought or wants to recieve. It doesnt happen in Pixies but on her IM which she has now removed from her profile.

My Curvy got some very suggestive PM's which she politely declined but was surprised at the amount.

Some ladies like that stuff but the majority dont so test the water before allowing your hormones to take over. Our ladies share very personal stuff with us and it is a privelidge that we should savour but not think that they are looking for anything more than our appreciative comments.