Anthony,

It's clear that being new to the boards (oh and welcome to them by the way) that you don't yet know our members well.....you certainly don't know me well, or else you might have a different view of my earlier post.

I certainly don't have 'presumed biases' about what women want and my conclusions about Raven were not jumped to because of my own views and morality and if you read my post again, you'll see that I suggested that they MIGHT be playing a part in her behaviour.

As for antipathy to overly sexual women.....can I ask what an 'overly' sexual woman is? Because that implies you feel that a woman can be too sexual....and that's not something I believe in. Hell, I personally am about as sexual as a person can get, and have been since early childhood - I can't remember a time when sexual fantasy and masturbation did not feature in my life.

My concern, as I think I stated clearly enough the first time, is that in this particular case, perhaps Raven was not sleeping with these guys for the right reason. In my humble opinion, the fact that she felt the need to ask whether she was a 'slut' (using the term in a negative way) showed that she wasn't entirely comfortable with the way her sex life was panning out.

I am not a religious person (not even Christened) I don't consider myself to have higher than average 'morals', but I do have common sense (and a degree in Psychology as it happens) so those are my credentials for my theory that perhaps Raven was behaving a little naively. I sincerely hope she doesn't have reason to regret her actions and I sincerely hope she isn't kidding herself that she's in control, if she isn't, but let's face it, in the real world, not the idealistic one, these things do happen to 19 year olds.

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