I believe as Lilith mentioned above that an affair is where your heart is completely involved. I also believe that you can end up cybering with someone and it not be an affair. But that one you keep going back to and discussing in-depth about your feelings for one another that that is.

I have had a situation like that and learned a great deal from it. Although I still care for this person more than I could describe, it was an affair that I am not proud of myself about. I think I would have possible met this person in the RW if it kept going. Would I go back and change things if I could? Not on your life. Would I do it again? No. Have I told my husband? No, I think it would hurt him to much.

Do I judge others for similar activities? ABSOLUTELY NOT!








Ouch I need out of this thread it is to damn serious! :P hehe

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