Ok folks, this one's alittle difficult.

I am lucky enough to have a very good friend that is able to help me out through this deployment. her husband is in the same unit as mine and her son is only a little bit younger than my son. Our situation is almost exactly the same. I'm posting this for her, but she doesn't know I'm asking for your advice.

it seems as though she is in love with someone else. it's not that she doesn't love her husband, she is totally in love with him too. But she confessed to me that lately she's been having feelings about this other guy so strong that she can't just ignore them anymore. They were very good friends before the deployment and things have just developed from there. They've hung out alot, and she adores him, adores his kids and he treats her well.

she doesn't know what to do. she doesn't want to be unfaithful to her husband, espeically now, and especially becuase of their son. but at the same time she is undenyably attracted to this guy and is having visions of being a family with him and his children. But she doesn't want to hurt her husband and is still inlove with him too.

She's very confused. And I'm at a loss for what to tell her.

LAw