Was there a moment in time....or a series of moments...that transformed you from someone who was indifferent about sex to someone who was focused on mastering the art?

Was it a person? An inner journey? Pixies? Something else? What took you from an indifferent lover, to someone obsessed with slaking their need?

How long did the process take? Or is it a cyclic thing with you ~ when you like it, it's good....but you're often indifferent?

I'm very interested in your responses....especially responses from the guys. I am trying to understand my own sexual journey ~ through exploring others' ~ and I am also trying to find a key to sparking someone else's journey.

Thank you for your responses!

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For me, the quality of my sexual experiences with the men in my life has depended upon my emotional relationship with them. I, unfortunately, began the sexual road at an early age, and, more unfortunately, did not have a good "teacher." When I first *really* fell in love--I *knew* I was head over heels--I *immediately* wanted to make myself the most desireable person I could be. I read books, worked on my mindset...and it shows in a *total* change in attitude both in and out of the bedroom.

I'm not sure this helps you, osuche, but I do understand.

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"Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. So love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who don't, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, then let it, and if you have to wait for what you really want, take the time because nobody said that life would be easy. They just promised it would be worth it." ~ Unknown author

Yep, puberty!!
But actually I've always been a sexual person, ever since I can remember. I can rememebr in primary school looking at the 'human body' books in the library and giggling at the naughty bits!

CasperTG

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The beginning of my sexual awakening came when I first found this place. Until then I was, well I was a prude. It's through talking to people here that I began to see that it was not only ok to like sex but to explore more to find out what I do and don't like. I had a "no list" a mile long but now I just have a few firm boundaries. I had also quit my job and began to live my dreams around that time. I am not sure whether my awakening was purely sexual or if that just happened to be one aspect of a complete spiritual awakening and time of greater self-awareness.

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Agree with CTG, puberty.

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I have been a sexual person since puberty too. Being married to Stud has only made that grow since he is very sexual and has always expected me to be also.

In fact I thought we were fairly kinky in our sex life until I started coming to Pixies and a couple of other sex boards. It has been a very big education for me and I have been on a renewed sexual exploration now for almost a year.

It is also very satisfying to be able to approach hubby with a new idea and have him look at me in surprise. The poor man don't know what has got into me lately. Things I never would consider doing now turn me on.

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There was a period of time when I didn't want to have sex at all, which put a strain on our marriage, (luckily he is understanding) but it was health reasons. After a surgery to clear up some of the problems, it was almost like the doctor left the switch "on". It was completely different and I couldn't get enough of it. Coming to Pixies helps too, mostly the stories for me.

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