The real aphrodisiacs for hetero Girls is when a guy is confident, funny, understanding and complimentary. Looking cute helps too, of course. If girls are wanting you as a friend they obviously think of you as a nice person, someone to be trusted. But you'll stay stuck there in the "Friendship Zone" unless you take control and move things to the next level. You need to let her know that you find her attractive (compliments work wonders: "You've got a beautiful smile" is sure to make her show it off to you). Be a bit cheeky with your advances. Feel free to borrow this line if you think you can pull it off with humour, charm and authority: "I've got this dastardly plan to kiss you on the lips. Do you think I'll get away with it?"

Even if she does say "no", she'll probably be amused and you won't feel like you've made an utter fool of yourself by just lunging at her suddenly when she's been thinking of you as a friend rather than a lover.

It's great that you're beginning to feel good about yourself. I'm damn sure that you haven't been rejected in the past because of your looks. It's more likely to be a lack of confidence, and that's something you can work on.

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