Falcon...please expand on the situation for us. The information (or lack of it) that you supplied, leaves us questioning your involvment and motives.

Tell us how important this girl is in your life...from your perspective and from hers. Do you like her and she's not taking you seriously? Is that what you meant when you said, "There is this girl at work who keeps joking about relationships and anything that should [be] serious for that matter."?

I hope you aren't offended by our responses to date. Can you understand the confusion?

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