So I tried relaxing and calming myself and told him to take things really slow. He went down on me for about an hour (wow. . .isn't he generous ? heh) It was THE best sex we've had so far. It was really slow and rhythmic and gentle and just sweet. Since then, we've had sex 2 other times, and it hasn't hurt much at all (maybe a little, but it was pleasurable pain - the girls know what I'm talking about. Gotta love that friction !), even though he didn't go down on me for an hour either time. Thanks SO much !! Your guys's advice really helped. -=0)