love, forgive and fight fairly. stay on point of argument, no past arguments brought up, no past actions, only theproblem at hand. avoid the word why because it elicits an emotional response. ask a child why they broke the window and excuses will flow. ask the same child how the window came to be broken and you'll probably hear that the ball was hit and went through the window. last for now, LISTEN AND ASSUME PARTNERS WORDS HAVE VALUE!!

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robert

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