I will admit that I have never had a clue what an older man (40's and up) sees in a 20 something "girl"...Personally, I am more attracted to someone that is in basically the same place in life I am, someone I can have a conversation with and not have to explain to them what or who I'm talking about.

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I like the bed I'm sleeping in, just like me it's broken in; it's not old -- just older.
Like a favorite pair of torn blue jeans, this skin I'm in it's alright with me; it's not old -- just older.....Bon Jovi