Thank you, wyndhy,

I just asked because it just seems that hiding this place seems to me like hiding an aspect of your sexuality. You're hiding an openness that you've probably felt here, and that if you continue to hide, you'll feel stifled and resentful. Your husband might very well be turned on by the idea that you post at a 'porn' site, and want to join the board as well. I found a web site much like this one a couple years back. I told my S/O right away.. He checked out the stories, and pretty much just doesn't bother with that site (or this), but He knows that I'm here, that I post things, flirt, etc. He knows that I play online and on the phone (I have His permission), etc. It just took some serious talks to get past the idea that these sites were a threat to our relationship. And we've been bumping along just splendidly. I don't feel stifled, I don't feel resentful, and I can be as pervy as I like. Sometimes, He likes to read over my shoulder, and other times, He pulls me away to ravage me.. *grin*

I think it would be better to tell him, and just.. see what happens.