NOT to be a bitch raven18... I have absolutely no doubt that your heart is breaking.. and that there is nothing that can be said that will make that pain go away as if it never existed.. the best I (or anyone else here) is offer you hugs.. warm thoughts... and inspiration to move on.. and discover the great things that life has to offer...

now... that supportive stuff out of the way...

I gotta say... and I apologize if this is gonna come off bitchy... BUT.... your title of this thread... makes it painfully obvious to me that you have completely missed what Pixies is about... Yeah.. it is about the sex.. the chatter...and the fun... but more importantly it is the unreserved support that is so willingly given...

Sorry for your pain..I wish you soooo much love and happiness... but I don't think that you are giving credit to the wonderful supportive group of friends that make up this place...

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> leaving thread now!!