I've often thought that the first exposure to the Playboy in your dad's sock drawer is often the defining moment in a boy's (and probably more often than not) sexual evolution. Probably responsible for setting in stone a certain body image...although my preference is nothing like either the typical '60s Playboy type or my mom.

It's only been in the last few centuries, really, that children have been purposefully sheltered from exposure to normal marital sex or watching how the birds and the bees (as well as horses and dogs) do it.

I think the next step for boys is that first moment when our bodies produce that first shot of testosterone, and we cease to think with our big heads.

After that, it all has to do with how we act on our impules.

In fact, BCG and Lil are giving me impulses right now...

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