Truth is, we probably don't have sex as often as I'd like. It's not just intercourse. I count oral sex; serious fondling, mutual masturbation, and probably a variety of other activities as sex ... more intimate than kissing. We kiss and hug each other probably every day, but more intimate times are less frequent. If I had my drothers, I'd like to see us have sex maybe a couple of times a week. I think that would be wonderful.