There are too many biological/pysiological factors involved with attraction for your fiance to expect that you will never be attracted to others. It's unrealistic. It is normal to imagine what sex would be like with other people. If he tells you he doesn't think sexual thoughts about others then he is not being honest.

In a relationship with great communication you can talk about these thoughts with out the other person feeling threatened. I wish you tons of luck!

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