an interesting dilemma.

on one hand, i think being up-front about it...sorta in the way WI laid out ... is the best solution. it shows you respect her and value her opinion.

but, people can get to feeling really uptight about, and offended by other people's sexual practices and fantasies and the like. so much so that it could ruin a friendship. so i have to admit, if my spouse was like that and there wouldn't be any harm in NOT telling, i wouldn't.



for the record ... the previous question? … even though it seems you wouldn’t have done anything so foolish: don’t try to trick any body into any kind of first-time-sexual any thing at any time. . just my 2 billion dollars worth.

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