the problem is you are not 'moving on' but must; it is an unhealthy relationship for both of you. i would take some of txgrneyes' advice farther and say don't try to not talk to her, just don't talk to her. period. i say again, it is not healthy this relationship you have had with this girl, at least what you have shared here and on other threads.

everyone has unpleasant things they must face and endure, and you'll have a lot more after this one. don't dwell and don't drown in self pity, ire and depression. pick your self up and move on. good luck

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