I think it's fair to say that in general, men are more 'visual' than women, while women are more interested in the erotic stories, the flirtatious chat and the serious discussion here at Pixies but there are other things to take into consideration. For me personally, I get far more of an idea of whether I'm attracted to a man from chatting in the general forums that looking at umpteen pictures of his member.
For example, women who post pictures here tend to be far more imaginative than the men. There are men (Fussy, Aqua and Glyndwr spring to mind immediately, but I know there are others) who demonstrate imagination and creativity in their posts but a lot of the men simply post pictures of their cocks. There's no build up to it, we don't get to see much of the rest of their bodies and there's often no story or sexy theme. I think we women tend to tease and draw the audience in more with our posts because we actually have to 'compete' more for the viewer's attention when we post pictures.
Finally, I know the reason that I personally don't tend to comment on men's pics is because in the past I've noticed that if I post to compliment a man whom I don't already consider a friend or acquaintance, they often take it as a come-on and I will then be propositioned in some way or other, something that I'm just not interested in.
I think most women would agree that it's not that we DON'T like to look at naked men, but perhaps a more accurate question would be, why do men like to look at naked women, since it's men who seem to be able to look and look and look without ever getting tired or bored.....pity that most can't say the same for making love to their own wives!!!!!!
