Hmm... I like both.

I have a thing for men in uniform and/or suits, so the cleaned and spit-polished look is good for me.

There's a fine line of grubby/homeless that some men, especially ones my age, walk, and that normally only appeals to me when we roll out of bed in the morning.

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I see your fantasy... you want to make it a reality

Are you in the mood to be subdued

You see these shackles
Baby I’m your slave
I’ll let you whip me if I misbehave

Tie me to the bedpost

I like it rough
cause I'd rather feel pain than nothing at all