09-08-2005, 04:26 AM
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Join Date: Nov 2004
Location: Melbourne, Australia
Posts: 482
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Okay tie her up on the bed in doggy position and get some lube and start going. lol. Just kidding.
Never do that.
You should start with a nice slow full body massage to relax her. Scented candles also help ease her mind. The idea is to relax all her muscles in her body so they are "loose".
Then from there get the vib\dildo out without her seeing and add some lube to the vibrator/dildo. Tell her to expect a cold sensation, that will feel a little funny at first.
The reason you do this is so she get's use to the idea of having something put in "there". After you get her use to it, let her do it herself so she can control it, then when she is comfortable with the feeling of it put some lube on your penis and insert it slowly. Also find a position that is comfortable for her so when you do it, it goes in without too much trouble. Doggie is good for a first timer as there is no "body" on top of them that puts extra pressure on the area. Hope it helps.
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