Both of these ladies have given very wise advice. You will get to the point where you have to express your desires - take a chance. You never know the answer to the question until you ask the question. Life is too short to not seek happiness. Too often people are afraid to take a chance and when it comes to love, we fail to let our emotions show and then end up regretting it later. Take a chance! It worked for Loulabelle, it just might work for you too!! Good luck