performing oral sex on a girl for the first time
 

Ladies and Gentlemen,
I need your input please :) I need to know how to perform oral sex on a lady. I'm a female myself and (if all goes well :) I'll be lucky enough to please a female friend of mine at the end of the summer...
She's kind of shy so, I have to use my charm to get between her legs other than that...what do I do when I'm there??? :)
any peices of advise for a first timer would be great ;)

Hi, welcome blue eyes.
You are in the lucky situation of having a female body yourself. You know what would be good for you, don´t you? Do this to her.
Everything good is allowed. Use your imagination. Start with caressing higher body parts, continue going down slowly, circling around for the warm up and come to the center after some time. Sucking, licking, kissing...
I mean, a real instruction is not necessary. That is the great thing: you can relax and do what you want.

Well, I could go step by step on how I do it, but I wont. Just do what you would love to have done yourself. As a woman, you'd know more about where to lick, kiss etc.. than one of us guys would. Good luck!

Eros

Hi Blue_Eyes, and welcome to Pixies' (I know you've been here for a while but I've not had a chance to say hi until now :))...

There have been a number of threads dealing with performing oral sex, so do have a dig through the forums. One that might be useful is the "instruction manual" I put together earlier in the year --- it's here. I didn't write it specifically for woman-to-woman interaction but really I think it will all apply. Maybe there will be some specific things that women alone can do --- I know Wicked Wanda and some others have had some thoughts on that, elsewhere, though I can't remember which forums...

Anyway, do dig around and have fun! And keep us posted on what happens... ;)

--- sweetstuff

TEASE TEASE TEASE.... listen to her, and tease some more. You will know when she wants you to clamp down on her. =p


Teasing is the key, I whole-heartedly believe.

Every person likes diffirent things. The key to good sex in general is open and frequent communication. Without that, you're clueless. I mean, unless you can read minds. Wow....mind reader sex.... That would ROCK!

Hey blue eyes my wife loves it when I go down there and get her clit nice and hard then I run my down her folds and stay there while a use a fast vibrator on her button. Drives her wild every time.

Peoples tastes are all different (no pun intended)

A few G/F's have loved being gently licked on the soft spot at the top of the legs on the inside of their legs and then moving up to gusset/pantyline.

Take your time and let her guide you.

Do it with love and pleasure.

Andrew