Bdsm
 

ok lets hear your thoughts on BDSM and if your interested in it and what you love or hate about it.

hate it...it's for sickos and freaks













Of course I am a card carrying member of both the sickos and the freaks ;)

I could get into the basic apparel (leather, mesh, PVC, maybe even a chain or two) and maybe some light tying up, but nothing that involved pain.

but the pain is some of the best parts....it adds to the thrills

Sure for some of us pain is part of the appeal but for many it's simply the fetish wear and bondage that attract them.

It's fun!

With the furry handcuffs and the blindfolding and ... damn, I could go on and on.

:)

Bdsm
 

My biggest question...
I have come to pretty well understand and enjoy my admittedly "promiscuous" lifestyle, but my passion for giving away control is still a HUGE mystery.
I love it. The fetish wear is just a giant cherry on top of the BDSM Sundae for Wanda the "Armani Dyke". Trying on, or better yet being forced to wear these wonderful wild clothes is a hot turn on.
(if you haven't guessed, I am a sub)
I think I just love surrendering control of my body, my soul, and my sexuality to others.

hmmmmm
maybe I should answer when sober


WW

maybe not^^^ ;)

The clothing appeals to me as well. I love to just scan for pics of people wearing leather, latex, rubber, you name it. I am not so much into hoods but there is a time and place for everything.

I'm still looking for a teacher,
I make a good student. :loveshowe

luv light BDSM, im usually the sub , but the times ive tied up and teased the hell outta hubby i do really enjoy!!

dont like EXTREEME pain , but a nibble here or spank there is good fun for me!

I like that....a LIGHT nibble or spank. Okay, I'm now officially into LIGHT BDSM.

Now, how do I sneak furry handcuffs and a dog collar into bed?

I love the idea of exploring bdsm, but it has to be with someone that has the right attitude.

I need someone that will participate with me because they want to, and not because they're just doing it because I asked them to.

And we need to be able to act goofy when we have to.

I'm a submissive living in a dominant/submissive relationship. My Dom is amazing in all ways and I have never been happier then I am right now. I'm not a masochist, but I do crave a certain amount of pain. I adore the floggers, crops, bondage, spankings, and the mental control he has over me. Life is good!! :loveshowe

I like light Bd. Having control over the woman, helpless and teasing her till she begs to be taken completely. And of course I love the sexy oufits. Part of the enjoyment of the gift that is a woman is in the unwrapping. If know what the sub wants and needs and graves in the way of pain and pleasure, and you provide that pleasure, you know your reward will well worth it.