An introfrom the new me...
 

Been gone for awhile and had some serious changes in my life. After 15 yrs of maraige, I am now seperated, divorice pending, and trying to meet new women. Any hints that all you beautiful ladies could supply would be appreciated! I have been out of the game too long and ammore than a bit rusty at meeting and flirting. I am sure that all you beautiful pixie women will be able to give me some good advice. Thank you in advance for your suggestions!!!!!!!

Welcome back flywater. Though I can't help you with advice on what ladies are looking for...I can tell you that I hope all is well with you and yours.

I appreciate the thoughts wild, believe me, i really do!

Welcome back!

No big tips here but to say, be yourself. Nobody likes a fake. Just smile & talk... the rest will follow if it's meant to be. Best of luck in your new life. :)

Well wishes to you .... but my first advice would be to allow yourself enough time to heal from the relationship that's ending and figure out who YOU are now.... that will give you a good idea of what you would like to find in a woman and then you'll be able to move forward with confidence ... and there is nothing more sexy (at least to me) than a confident man (not cocky ... but confident). Hope your life is moving toward great things! :)

WB flywater. Sounds like TB and fzzy have some pretty good suggestions. In the meantime, enjoy your time here. :)

Welcome back

welcome back!

Good to see you back *smiles*

*hugs* :x:

Welcome back and good luck........ damn it's hard to stop looking up!^^^^^ :slurp:

Welcome back flywater and good luck on your search. Be yourself, be honest and take your time. She is out there just waiting for you. :)

I appreciate the thoughts all! I can only hope that Tess is right. Not really feeling all that confident right now, but, I will survive. :That which does not killl us makes us stronger" (Personally, at times I think that is BS, but its true)

Welcome Back!!

Get involved in something you like to do. Keep busy and you never know when someone special will pop into your life. :)

Welcum back flywater!

fzzy hit it right on the head! Heal first...this is the beginning of the rest of your life!

Loads of good thoughts for you hun!

Hey there!
I'm sorry to hear of the troubles at home, espcially since I remember your post on your anniversary (i think thats when it was) of how things were going so well. You do what makes you happy...yes, all things happen for a reason.
Keep your chin up, what's meant to be will happen. I'm sure you'll have no problems finding what will make you happiest.
Take care.

Wow...

all I can say Flywater is that my thoughts are with you... and that I am sorry for the emotional turmoil.... I wish you well... and hope that you find yourself happier than ever before... and soon..

Hugs..

I wanted to take a moment and thank you all for your kind and heartfelt comments. I am doing my best to keep my chin up and patiently waiting and looking. Thanks again to all of you.

Glad to see you back FW.:)

The only common thing we all know is that your experience is not a good one. After that, NOBODY else knows what is going on for you. Most of the time the people involved don’t understand it, so I have no advise for what you should do. Only one insight of what you shouldn’t do.

Don’t go looking. Don’t go hunting. Don’t go searching. What you may hope to sometime find is not under a rock or in the shadows. A person to spend some time of your life with is where the kind of life you want is going on. Go looking for life. The kind of person you can share it with is doing it alone right now, …. the same as you. A relationship is not a ‘FIND’, it’s a ‘HAPPENING’.


Just one prospective pal. Go find yours. ;)

PF... you are one smart man :) I hope that Flywater follows your advice...

PF, thank you for that very valuable advise! I will take it too heart and try my best to follow it! Thank you again for all your help and concern.

After being gone awhile I had to come back and say hi to all the people who supported me and shared their thoughts and advise. I am doing much better now, having met someone and the relationship is progressing nicely. We are both a bit gunshy, her being in a same situation, but things are going very well. As I was going through old posts, I came across this from PF and after rereading it, was amazed at the insight! I can only hope that I am wise enough to share advice like this when someone asks me!

To all my pixie friends, thank you and it has been great! Hopefully it will get better! Looking forward to hearing from you all again and I am looking forward to posting again!

BTW, happy belated new year!