I swore I wasn't going to post to this thread again but here goes....

Your young lady is Asian.
Being so she has probably been brought up in a completely different culture and has a mindset that you cannot fathom. You need to become educated about her.
Maybe you should investigate through reading what has brought her to the belief system she has had ingrained in her.Once you understand the cultural difference more, maybe then she can slowly learn yours.

That's it! I am out of here!

it might or itmight not but you are going about it the right way and that's something to be proud of. :x:

oh, and WI?...





















:moon::p

Ok Bibi. As it stands I am in the middle of said negotiatians. I am getting to understand her and surprise surprise making good progress.

Don't tease me like that! :D

You can tease me like that ANYTIME. :lust:

Why thank you PF...I didn't know you even noticed! ;)

*Bursts into the thread...holding a droopy chocolate licorice straw as if it were a gun*

NOBODY MOVE! THIS IS A HIJACK! No one will get hurt as long as you follow my instructions!

OK MM...this is what I want you to do. Take some new pics of yourself...sitting at your puter with a pic of me (your fave from my archives) visible on your monitor and a handful of cum! Make a new picture thread and name it "Lixy Made Me Do It". PM me as soon as the thread is done...and we'll see about my coming out to visit you! :devilish:

*Bites a chunk off the licorice straw and blows on the piece left as if it were a smoking gun*

OK EVERYBODY...RESUME WHAT YOU WERE DOING!

Oh...*curtsey*...and thank you for letting me hold ya here for a while. I don't really have a gun *giggles and holds up the limp licorice*...I was just joshing you. :rofl:

*A :x: for MM...full on the lips...and as I speed out the door I hear whispers of, "Who was that sweet hijacker"?*

That wasn't me you heard.



I was the one that said "nice ass". :D

So, as I am still a virgin (and yes, one very very reluctant about sex), I hope that I can help you understand her train of thought. There are a lot of things about sex that I don't understand and probably never will until I really experience it. There is a lot of fear in the unknown and sex is not an exception. I have recently started dating a guy who respects me enough to accept that I am not ready for sex. Putting pressure on someone to experience something that they feel they are not ready for is disrespectful. It is a big step for some people and making such a decision takes time. The only way to "woo" her is to give her time to become comfortable with sex on her terms. Pressuring just makes it worse. If you really care about her, you will respect her decision and not question it. She will decide when she is ready for it. It's hard enough to make that decision on your own without having someone on the sidelines trying to coach you too. Really, it's all about choosing what is right for you and making sure that it IS right. It's a big step for some people and it deserves a lot of consideration and understanding from both sides. :)

Mark...When she's ready, she'll let you know. Don't push it. If you care, like you say you do, let it be. Seems like you're the one with the problem. Sex is not a "be all and end all". Look at the bigger picture.

I forgot to mention that if you try to pressure her into this there's a good chance you will lose her. It only makes sense that if you care, you care about her completely.....her thoughts, beliefs, morals, etc.

Ahhh, Mercury_Maniac.:rolleyes2 ………………… I know where you can get some of those if you need them. :o

well is that all? :D

as soon as i get a chance i'll get right on it :devilish:

Mae all I am trying to accomplish here is to give her all the advice and pertinent info on this. So she can make a choice whether she wants to experiment or not. It is her body after all, and it's an unchartered area for her.