I agree with what Eastern said about men are more likely to me scared of the homophobe thing.
Deep down I think that both sexs are equally willing to explose the same sex but that being said women are alot more open to the idea

Damnit with you and your rules! First no online meetings and now no married women either! What would it take to change your mind?!?!?!?! You'd be my first..... ;) :D

Um...I'd like to be there to see that, please? I promise not to make any noise!



Except the splatter of my manjuice hitting the ceiling, of course. :hot:

I have a friend that very adamantly denied ever jerking off because he equated that to being gay. Or at least assumed that everyone else would believe that, and he was (still is a bit) homophobic.

I know how you feel Lou - she also has a 'no bi men' rule too :(

Part of the reason guys are typically so unwilling to explore the same sex is what society has placed on being gay. How many times growing up do boys call other guys "faggot" or "you fag" or any other term not really calling somebody gay, just using the term as a bad thing. You never hear girls doing that to other girls.

Also, here is another big reason in my opnion. Guys love the thought of 2 girls having sex. VERY few guys are not atleast a little turned on at the thought. But on the opposite end, girls are typically not turned on at the concept of two guys having sex. While a few guys may not care much about 2 girls having sex, many women are repulsed by the idea. Just my thoughts

In my personal experience, girls can get called derogatory names such as "dyke" but it usually suggests butch-ness more than anything else. Being a gay woman is definately not any more or less accepted than being a gay man, here at least.

The second point though is something I agree on completely though. When I started telling people I was bi, I had no fear that my many male friends were going to be anything other than insanely happy for me. The idea that they were friends with a girl who not only fancied other girls, but wasn't off their market... Let's just say they were happy. :p But when you ask any of my female friends (though they are few and far between) what they think of MM action, from the true vanillas right through, the answer is usually negative.


Personally, it turns me on. A lot. :D

Me too Reaperwoman!

I think a lot of women haven't even thought properly about the idea of two guy together....what did your friends think of 'Brokeback Mountain'? I wonder if that film has allowed some women to see MM action in a new light?

you can add me to the drool list too. mmmmmmmmm.