Prove it! :p

make me!
:shake:

You sexy thang!

I dont know if the word is sexier or not...but I do feel a lot better about myself today than even a year ago. More confidence in myself, feeling a lot of peacefulness in my life and being able to stand up for myself has a lot to do with it.

5 years ago.....didn't feel sexy at all, wasn't in the greatest health and just felt ugly

I feel sexier simply because I have someone in my life whom makes me feel sexy =) And is a constant boost to my self-esteem. I mean, how many guys do you know that almost daily compliment you and poke you if you're putting yourself down? And I mean guys whom you are /not/ dating. =) He's a life-saver... the cherry kind lolol

I feel sexier now - maybe something to do with my age. I read somewhere that 38 is a woman's sexual peak, and it definitely feels that way :D Without a doubt I am hornier now than ever before! Only trouble is, if this is the peak, then its only downhill from here... :(

Sara

Nope...felt sexier back then for sure

Dont feel it at all...just plain ole frumpy fat me

Yes, I am definitely sexier than 5 years ago.

I suspect that my capabilities have waned, but how I approach my sexual relationship has grown,

largely due to the input from my sexy friends here.

Than 5 years ago? Yes. I've gotten some personal illness issues under control and I'm not taking hardly any medication now. I've convinced myself that I hate fast food (although I have still to convince myself that I hate eating out, which would be better). I go to the gym 3-5 times a week, which gives me an overall level of physical fitness I didn't use to have.

However, if you were to ask me whether I'm sexier than I was last year, the answer would be no...I've gained a bit of weight and I've had a really tough year, and I've not been feeling very sexy recently.

Sometimes yes, sometimes no.

I am constantly horny but that is different from feeling sexy, I think.

Physically, I exercise a decent amount and am in good shape for a guy 40. No real gut, good muscle tone, etc. Never had a six-pack gut and probably never will...but it is trim. So it isn't that I have any physical things that make feel on again/off again.

I think it is more having young kids and the consequential inability to be spontaneous that does it to me.

Sure
 

I would go with yes because with a little age (oh hell I'm almost 31) I'm a whole lot more comfortable with my sexuality and much more open to a greater variety of things.

So, is a streak of pure white hair (natural) in otherwise coppery-blonde long hair sexy, or should I break down and start coloring it? I am having some doubts about my sexiness factor.

I spend an extra $60 to have a big chunk lightened like that. Surely it must be sexy or it wouldn't cost so damn much.:D

Thanks, I'll bear that in mind....I've been pretending that it's there on purpose :o

Tigerlily78

It is there for a purpose, you just haven't figured out what that is yet.