:spank: don't tuck tail and scoot. Look around the forums and see what all the people here have to say about the sexual experiences they are having or in some case not having. You may find something or someone that strikes a familiar chord and you may be able to provide insight to someone else.

Lilith, I'll be around and will chime in when I feel its appropriate. Thanks for your words of understanding and sexual wisdom. At my age you would think that I’d be more attuned to things sexual, guess I still need to do some growing up.

Hey we all have shit we gotta work on.... like for instance I am working on this obsession I have with asking men to post pics in Men's Pics.








You are gonna post some right???;)

Hum, maybe. I'll have to work on getting a pic or two of the ole tool in ready mode. I have some piercings that people either like or don't like. But I like them, and that is what count's. I used to have more, but the wifey didn't like a couple of them so out they came. Stay tuned, news at eleven!

NightRider? If I haven't said it before....I'm saying it now.......Welcum to Pixies! And, I'm so glad you hung in there and read ALL the posts of wisdom from our finest Pixies! No bolting now mister! Two more posts (you are at 8 as of my reply) and you're officially "in"....LOL!

I've read and re-read your post and replies here......to get a feel for you (no pun intended) and to understand your query. It is a good question and there have been some good responses.......but no one has mentioned respect. I get the feeling from your replies that you don't value women except as a means to and end......your end......your satisfaction. It comes off loud and clear in the way you speak of your wife (wifey) and in the way you refer to the Pixie women (attention whores) after only reading but a few replies to your question.

And....while I'm on that fact.....your lack of patience could use a kick in the ass too! Not everyone gets time every day to be able to respond to every thread posted here.....so as you settle in and post inquiring threads......try and have a bit of patience as the members trickle in and find you! But, I digress.........(and I appologize for the reprimand.....I have no intention of making a mockery of your question!)

As I was saying..........even if what you seek is a wham, bam, TY ma'am rendezvous from an online meeting.....you still have to show a touch of respect for the opposite sex or you'll have your baited hook in the water all year and NEVER get a bite! There are plenty women on this www that want a onenighter.......but how would you ever know that if you just put the question (hook) out without trying to get to know some specifics and share some of yourself (bait & net)?

Talk to women! You don't have to share your life story.....but it'd be nuts for a lady to just say, "Hey....I'm available even if I know nothing about you....and we can meet at ______, today"! There's a lot of kooks out there....and frankly, you haven't proven you aren't one of um! Don't confuse kink and kook either.......kink is in the eye of the beholder.....and kook is in the eye of the victim! I didn't say there was anything wrong with kink......but at least let that certain someone get to know you a bit before you accuse them of being all show/no action. What you are offering isn't a bad deal.......but mores specifics would be in order if you expect to net such a special catch!

Oh geezzzzzzzz........sorry about all the fishing talk........but hubby just recently went striper fishing and it's fresh in my mind I guess! LOL! I hope you understand my advice none the less!

P.S. As with Lilith.....and many other Pixites.......my husband is aware of all my posts on this site (we even post together in "Couples") and I lack nothing in my relationship with him! He loves that I love to post here.......and I love that he loves that I love to post here. It truly is a one of a kind site.....and I suggest you take pantyfanatic's advice and peruse all the threads before passing judgement! Have fun and I hope to see you around the boards......(and in "Men's Forum"....hint, hint!) LOL!

All I can say is try and work things out with your wife first. And in the process remember one simple truth--sex is the desert of a relationship not the main course. Honor, love and respect are promises made, and as an honorable man they are meant to be kept. Certainly there maybe elements of sex in your relationship that does work for the both of you.

In this relm I can but empythize with you. I Personally gone through 7 years of a living Hell before exhausting all hope. I can rest comfortable with a clear conscience. It was hard...thought for my "X" and I it wasn't sex that was the issue--just something a lot worst.

In part by honoring your wife, you honor yourself.

As to the ladies here, I can truthfully say from observation and communication that they are sophisticated and worthy of respect. I would be comfortable in wagering that such that you seek can not be found here.